Real Or Imaginary? That Is The Question…
Do you really have a disability? How many times have you heard and saw stories of people overcoming their handicaps? Some people like to talk about how bad they have it and how life has been unfair to them.
They say things like: “You don’t know what it was like growing up in my family”
Or..
“Of course He/She is successful look at how sexy they are. If only I was gifted with charisma”
If you happen to be one of those people who love to complain and blame everyone else for your situation I think its time you step back and take an inventory check of yourself.
Real Or Imaginary – Look In The Mirror Who Do You See?
Yes, some of you have real problems. Maybe health related, maybe genetic related or maybe an accident that leaves you with no legs. My heart goes out to you. However there
are some of you reading this who should be ashamed of yourselves for feeling sorry for yourself.
If there is one thing that is not going to help your attraction marketing , it’s having a pity party. Nobody likes hanging around someone who feels sorry for themselves all the time. Also the saying “birds of a feather flock together” really applies here.
What I hope you get out of today’s message is that you realize you can achieve anything you want if you want it bad enough. The most amazing thing that can happen in your life is that you believe in yourself and your abilities.
I have a really good friend, who’s been handicapped since she was born but I never really saw her being shy about what she is. I’m so proud of her because she’s totally embraced who she really is.
Hi Lily, thanks for commenting and sharing your story.. 🙂
I like what you’ve added about the equation of Having no friends and being depressed. Its true that we all encounter downfall on every journey, But on the half way, things will be better soon.
Hi Mika, thanks for that.
It came to me from a joke I read.. I liked the format of the joke I just changed the words
Hi Larry! You caught me on that! I was taking it seriously.
I really believe that we create our own reality and that how you look at life influences what manifests in your life. I am trying teach my naturally sad 6-year old son to use the technique of changing your point of view, smiling in the morning, and only talking about good things that happen to him during the day. When he does that, he really looks and feels happy, but he forgets and starts complaining, grumbling and sulking until I remind him. I guess some people are born sad, and we who realize that we create our own reality need to help others, starting from our own kids.
Hi Svetlana,
That’s awesome. It’s great when parents realize how to encourage good behavior and habits..
Thanks for sharing!
Larry,
People with no Clarity of Purpose are lost in the wind! There is nothing you can do about them. Successful people know what they want and do whatever it takes to achieve it! It can take time or years, but they won’t give up.
Thanks for sharing,
John
Hi John, I agree with you to a degree.. As a martial artist I know that most people don’t understand internal martial arts. In fact you can practice really hard for 10 years straight and still not scratch the surface.
Thanks for stopping by and commenting.
I am very social person and your formula fits at me very well. i can’t live without meeting with my friends even before blogging i trying to met with my friends so that to express my words and feelings that i am doing that and that and they also expressed me all these.
great post Larry, comes here after a long time because of busiest routine and also i shut commenting on other blogs.
Thanks Reeha, thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts
Everyone is responsible for their lives. You have to fix your life if you don’t like it. If you want to be successful, you have to stop blaming others. If your life sucks, it’s your own fault.
I agree I have no time for poeple feeling sorry for themselves without a genuine valid reason that would make anyone depressed. Personally I like to keep a positive frame of mind and keep it open to suggestion – I frenqunetly use terms like “I come out with solutions not problems” ~ it also comes down to willingness to learn, you must put in endless hours into your business for it to become gradually more knowledgable and apply this to your business
Larry, agreed.
I answered a question recently about what’s the best advice I could give someone and my answer was: be accountable, try and foster the attitude that ‘the buck stops here’ regardless of whether you like ‘the buck or not’. Hard to do, maybe. But if you have that viewpoint then change is possible. Actually, the anser I gave is in the post linked.
cool, i’ll check it out…